Attitude makes our life so valuable
Attitude is the most important thing in our life that always play a vital role in everyone’s life. “YOU CAN WIN” is a book, written by Shiv Khera. “You can win” is a name that also refers to attitude of human. In this book, Shiv Khera tried very clearly to explain the nature of human behavior. Human behavior depends on their attitude. As we know that there is no anybody without faults. Everybody do mistake but therefor, it can not be forgotten that every person has quality that can be used to earn fame, money, respect in front of society. “Before getting free from jail, a convict said- I am trying to be a member of a society… and another convict said- I am going to be a member of society” if we understand these sentences ..we can see the differences between them that first convict used “try” word in his sentence and another didn’t use "try" but directly said.. what he wanted to say. So here ‘TRY” word, that is used, is putting negative thought and attitude in front of us. But what another said, refers positive attitude, by which the another convict can make his life happy and crime free after getting free from jail.
Different thing is in this book that inspirational thoughts and experiences of great personalities are used, that is positively affecting youngsters or specially who are stepping out to get success facing some problems like lack of confidence or lack of positive thinking or facing problems to build a positive attitude.
Shiv khera said in this book that "success is the result of the attitude". This book is really able to inspire beginners but in my opinion something is unrealistic or unlikable in this book that sometimes, Shive Khera's opinion is surrounding of words like Losers and winners to differentiates between them but contradiction is that he had said in starting of chapters, everybody have goodness, Which is not maintaining the balance. and in my opinion nobody here in the world is loser".
But if we see it as a fault then it's not justice because in this book he tried hard to explain what he wanted to say and express in front us by using simple language and strongest thoughts of great personalities of world to reach this inspirational material to every person.
What kind of attitude is of any person depends upon his background, it depends on from which society.. he comes.
Different thing is in this book that inspirational thoughts and experiences of great personalities are used, that is positively affecting youngsters or specially who are stepping out to get success facing some problems like lack of confidence or lack of positive thinking or facing problems to build a positive attitude.Shiv khera said in this book that "success is the result of the attitude". This book is really able to inspire beginners but in my opinion something is unrealistic or unlikable in this book that sometimes, Shive Khera's opinion is surrounding of words like Losers and winners to differentiates between them but contradiction is that he had said in starting of chapters, everybody have goodness, Which is not maintaining the balance. and in my opinion nobody here in the world is loser".
But if we see it as a fault then it's not justice because in this book he tried hard to explain what he wanted to say and express in front us by using simple language and strongest thoughts of great personalities of world to reach this inspirational material to every person.
What kind of attitude is of any person depends upon his background, it depends on from which society.. he comes.
" If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with prais, he learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight.
If a child lives with a tolerance, he learns to patient.
If a child lives with a encouragement, he learns confidence.
If a child lives with shame, he learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice.
If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith.
If a Child lives with acceptance and friendship,
he learns to find love in the world.
These lines by "Shiv Khera" in his book.. is drawing our attention towards reality of society. Now question is that who come form lower group of society ..how can they increase their self-confidence..? in my opinion, I would like to say that read such kind of books of materials to get inspired and to build positive attitude to get success in the future.
